📆 Become a Founding Challenger: Enrollment Closes 9/27
IS YOUR Young hero PULLING AWAY?
21 Day Fast Track
GUARANTEED to REIGNITE the Bond...
21 Day Online Challenge
4 Live Classes
1 Life Changing skill
(Available on this page only)
Ready to Unlock the Leader within?
Ready to reignite the bond?
A closer bond with their father means you’ll provide your teenager
✅ authentic confidence
✅ real-world independence
✅ Unified family Culture
✅ a lifelong connection with Dad
Don’t let leadership
take a backseat
The Leadership FORGE is our 21-Day Fast Track to teach you exactly how to...
understand teenage psychology, earn their respect,
and create more memories together.
Event Dates
Oct 13, 20, 27 & Nov 3
Mondays 4:30-5:45Pm Pst (7:30pm-8:45pm EST)
The Cold Hard Truth
❌Trying a new medication,
❌Finding a new counselor,
❌Sending them to boarding school…
…Won’t change your connection with your young hero.
Here’s what they don’t want you to know:
Leadership starts with you.
Instructor: Tom Pfanner
COURSE Objective
To elevate the skill of family leadership;
so that you can create a more powerful connection, and guidance for your young hero!
This is more than a coaching program…
It’s a life changing shift in your beliefs, skills and connection
with those who matter most.
What dads are saying
WARNING:
I did NOT build this system for men with a victim mindset.
You must be committed to DOING THE WORK!
21 Day Fast Track
Don't let your teenager slip away!
When I felt my teenage son pulling away...
slipping into drugs, laziness and screen addiction...
I learn the old school method of “do what I say” was obsolete.
From my own transformation and over 4 years of helping thousands of Dads. I'm honored to invite you into...
The Leadership F.O.R.G.E.
100% Money-Back GuaranteE
YOU RISK NOTHING
I’m so confident this 21-day Live Master Class + Recording will transform your leadership… and show you how to guide your kids to be more independent and to build a stronger connection… that I’m offering you this 100% money-back guarantee to every who completes the program.
You must be completely blown away by everything you discover in The Leadership FORGE… or… let me know I’ll give you a full, no questions asked refund…
You can even keep the bonuses you’re getting on this page for free as my gift to you. My way of saying “Thank you for giving it a go!”
My one-on-one coaching programs starts at $4,000. To celebrate the launch of my new book Dads Who Lead. We want to pass along a special opportunity our community.
WHat dads are saying…
Hi, my name is Tom Pfanner,
Until a few years ago, my relationship with my teenage son was a daily struggle.
I would spend the night lying wide awake, questioning where I had taken a wrong turn. His body language and actions made clear he was pulling away from me as a leader.
I was frustrated because I knew his potential, but I wasn’t able to connect with him. I wasn’t able to be the guide for him I knew he needed.
I was scared that my son would become a high school dropout, leaving our family and my marriage in ruins.
This changed when I discovered the power of shifting from parenting to leading. Today, God has called me to help men around the country make the same shfit.
Our MISSION: To equip men to become the trusted and revered leaders of their home.
Here’s how we’ll make it happen:
As a founder of the Leadership FORGE you’ll get high-level leadership training. The FORGE system has helped countless fathers systematically elevate their leadership and transform their connection with their kids.
Each of the 4 Leadership Trainings will build upon each other. In between each session, you will have accountability and daily targets from me, as well as a brotherhood of men committed to the craft of fatherhood.
In addition, you’ll receive lifetime access to all leadership training and course materials. If you're looking for a quick fix. This is not for you.
The work is real. The work is deep. It will require 21 days of your heart.
But the work will create a powerful shift in your leadership and bond with your family. A skill that will transform your family legacy.
Forever.
Improve your leadership. Reignite your bond.
Rewrite your legacy.
Society is building a soft generation.
It’s time to fight back!
🚫End the power struggle
🚫Stop wishing for a stronger bond
🚫Don’t wait on the sidelines
21 Day Online Challenge
4 Live Master Classes
1 Life Changing skill
Master Class #1
THE LEADERSHIP ROADMAP
How to use 5 fundamental principles to guide and accelerate your transformation. Each layer of "The Leadership F.O.R.G.E." provides the skills and attributes to evolve into the trusted and revered leader of your home.
$397 Value
✔ How to Create Clarity
With clarity comes confidence... I'll go in-depth on how to identify clear and convicted action items as the leader of your home.
✔ Motivate Kids without saying a word
I'll share expert leadership tactics that will help you stay one step ahead of your kids. Enjoy great results with less effort and NO lecturing.
✔ Gain Unshakeable Confidence
90% of communication is non-verbal. I'll show you how to take out the guesswork so you can take action with certainty.
✔ Why Teens Ignore Expectations.
You'll learn 4 mistakes that can instantly create unnecessary tension in your home.
I'll teach you how to prevent kids from avoiding your leadership.
✔ Unlock the Leader God has called you to be.
Access a new level of your abilities as a Dad and husband. I'll teach you how to tap your leadership into your kid's potential rather than their limits.
✔ And Much More...
Praise for Dads Who Lead
Master Class #2
STOP PARENTING. START LEADING.
How to create the shift from being a parent to being a leader. This mindset shift will be the foundation for creating positive and authentic connections and expectations for your teenager.
And raise independent and free-thinking young men and women.
$297 Value
✔ How to Lead with Less Effort
And better results... You will learn step-by-step how to guide your kids to make decisive discussions and take action, on their own!
✔ How to Lead Risk Takers
Schools suppress healthy risk-taking. I'll teach you how to stretch and guide your son or daughter to take action outside of their comfort zone.
✔ How to Stop Chasing your Teenager
You'll learn how to stop giving reminders. I'll go in-depth on how to create a leadership style your teenage son or daughter will lean into.
✔ 3 Myths holding you back
The anchors that slow us down the most are the ones we don't see... Learn subtle mistakes that prevent you from making a huge impact on your kid's life.
✔ Why 52% of Adults 18-29 Live at home with their parents...
And how to prepare your kids for the road ahead. Learn how to help your teen develop the skills they need to fly the nest, without unnecessary hardship.
Praise for Dads Who Lead
Master Class #3
REVERSING REBELLION
How to prevent and reverse teenage rebellion: You'll learn what communication mistakes destroy relationships between family members.
You will learn our system of how to stop demanding respect and begin earning it with your kids.
$397 Value
✔ How to Teach Independence
And self-reliance from a young age. You will learn step-by-step how to guide your teen to take action as the main character in their own story.
✔ Gain Back Authority
End the sighs and eye rolls... You'll learn how to develop into a dad and leader that your teen authentically loves and respects.
✔ How to Re-Brand yourself as Dad
Develop a leadership style your kids will connect with. I'll go in-depth on how to rewrite how your kids perceive you and your expectations.
✔ Learn the Psychology of Teenage Rebellion
And why they rebel against leadership. Learn how to guide them and teach them the skills only a father can provide.
✔ Avoid the biggest mistake parents NEVER see...
Learn why most parents fall blindly into this trap. Sadly, it often leads to rebellion and teenagers begin to take a road that is worse for them.
Praise for Dads Who Lead
Master Class #4
More impact. Less Time.
How to create Lifelong Memories on a tight schedule: I will take you step by step through how to develop and plan adventures with any teenager.
$197 Value
✔ How to Escape Boredom
Get out from behind the kitchen table. I'll teach you step-by-step how to create a culture of excitement and ambition in your home.
✔ How to Find Quick Wins
Uncover how to connect deeper with your kids in a matter of minutes... You'll learn how to find the activities that bring you and your kids closer in no time.
✔ Why most parents cause their teens to pull away.
Learn how to avoid the 3 mistakes that will ruin a good time. Its tough to enjoy an adventure with a moody teenager. I'll teach them how to keep them engaged.
✔ How to Use Adventure...
...to form a deeper bond with your son or daughter. I will go in-depth on planning activities that will bring you together, even if your kids seem to avoid you.
✔ Transfer Family Values with Lifelong Memories...
...without delivering a single lecture. We'll cover how to tie the values that matter, such as resilience, love and courage into activities your kids look forward to.
Meet your Coach
Tom Pfanner,
The leadership Dad
As a Father of three, Husband, former D1 Strength Coach and Combat Athlete, I've seen firsthand the power of intentional leadership...
After becoming a dad at 18, I overcame the adversity of being pushed out of my son’s life and have since rebuilt a thriving blended family.
My mission is to equip you to become the trusted and revered leader within your home.
Here's the Deal:
Today, 52% of Americans age 18-29 are living at home with their parents.
I believe a powerful connection with the father is the key for young people to make a successful launch into adulthood and the game of life.
After reigniting the bond with my teenage son. I felt an undeniable calling to help Dads fight back…
Today is your opportunity to join the journey. See you in class!
Praise for Dads Who Lead
Ready to Reignite the Bond?
Here's a Recap of Everything:
You Will Receive Instant Access to so you can immediately begin forging a deeper bond with your teen so you can provide child with...
...Confidence, Independence and a Lifelong Connection with their Dad.
✅ 4 Sessions of Live Group Coaching w/ Tom Pfanner ($997.00 value)
✅ Daily Accountability & FORGE Curriculum ($197)
✅ 4 Weeks Text / Voice Memo Questions w/ Tom Pfanner ($297 Value)
✅ THE LEADERSHIP ROADMAP ($297.00 value)
✅ HOW TO STOP PARENTING & START LEADING ($197.00 value)
✅ REVERSING REBELLION ($297.00 value)
✅ MORE IMPACT. LESS TIME. ($197.00 value)
✅ FORGE Brotherhood and accountability ($197 value)
✅ BONUS: GOAL SETTING SECRETS ($97 value)
Total Value: $2,773 Worth of Leadership Development Tools
21 Day Online Challenge
4 Live Master Classes
1 Life Changing skill
To celebrate the launch of my new book Dads WHo LEAD , I want to give you everything for only...
30-Day, 100% Money-Back Guarantee
If you're not completely blown away by finishing The Leadership F.O.R.G.E. after 30-Days, you will receive 100% of your Money Back, no questions asked. I will even let you hang on to the bonuses as a thank you for giving it a go...